Nat Pacini

My approach to therapy follows a simple format delivered with the utmost respect and enthusiasm. I must earn your trust. This is supposed to help you. My communication style is generally void of jargon, tired sayings or “psychobabble”. I follow Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as a model. Initially some mutual understanding of the problem must be established. Definition fosters clarity; clarity strengthens meaning; meaning empowers solutions. The goal is for both of us to understand more fully just what it is about your situation that makes it a problem. For many this discussion alone brings a bit of relief. It feels good to be heard and understood. Secrets, however, about your life, about you, about what you think, must remain secrets to the extent that you are more comfortable with them being your secrets. I will not venture there. You will learn that some things are irrevocably secrets and nobody can ever know. I will teach you how to protect those secrets, and their effects, and only you will decide, and under what circumstances, which secrets, if any, you will ever release, including to me. Next we learn more about the cognitive behavioral model. We know it is effective but we will decide how it will apply to you and how will you best incorporate the model comfortably into your life. We will discuss and negotiate what you can do. I respect your comfort level but I also respect your ability to overcome limitations. You are here to make a change. The two of us will decide how that will look. I keep in mind the expense required of you. I will go month to month with the goal of helping you establish an improvement in your life in one to two months if possible. There will be an amount of work you will do. The beneficial effects of this work you will soon know. I very much encourage full use of this platform. We can utilize the most beneficial device available in this format which is the frequent contact via messaging. This lends itself well to the model we use. The techniques employed here are time honored and supported by research and experience. There is a vast amount of resources to explore. Or we make new ones. I received my education from the University of Texas at Austin and was awarded Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology from the University of Houston-Clear Lake in 1986. I spent over 20 years in an in-patient facility in Texas as an Associate Clinical Psychologist. I have served as therapist to individuals from diverse backgrounds and with unique challenges. Some of the people I have worked with, in an alliance to make their lives at the very least tolerable, are among the coolest and most admirable humans I have ever known. I owe them a lot for the skills I bring here.